I thought when I quit my job that I would be bored. Like really really bored. But the bored-ness never came. I kept myself pretty busy and occupied with projects and friends and cleaning and planning and what-have-you's ......until the last 3 weeks. I feel like all I do now is twiddle my thumbs and hum and haw and sigh and mostly just wait.
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Wait and sigh some more.
Well, I do a few other things, too.
I've been "assigned' two hours of resting time a day from my midwife to help reduce the swelling in my ankles. This is when I watch Friends. I'm on season 5 now and I've learned a few things -- I like Chandler the least and Monica drives me absolutely bonkers and Rachel looks like my mom and Phoebe is pretty wacko and Ross is a sissy and Joey ....well, he's the best friend of them all. I cried when Phoebe gave birth to the triplets and gave them to her brother and his wife. And I laughed my head off when Ross couldn't get his leather pants back on.
On the days that I have doctor's appointments, which is far, far too often, I take Adam to work and pick him up (since we only have the one car between us. We also only have the one cell phone between us and neither one is really as bad as you would think). So on days that I get the car, I really get things done. Like last week, I had a dentist appointment, a midwife appointment, an appointment to get a new windshield for our car (stupid rocks), a lunch date with Jeanna, a chiropractor appointment, an appointment with my specialist, a Costco trip, and an appointment to get my blood drawn -- in three days! It was nutso.
I read. I just finished The Fault in Our Stars and am also reading Hunchback of Notre Dame.
I also am slowly working on a rough draft for a writing contest Jeanna
I cook dinner for us and then extra dinner for the freezer so I don't have to cook when baby comes. I clean up the messes I make (usually) and try to keep the house somewhat orderly.
I try really hard to take Kaleo for a walk everyday, but some days are better than others in both the Pain and Energy levels. Even if it's just a limp around the block, I try to do it. My hips are really starting to kill me. Sigh. Sigh, sigh, sigh.
In other, more exciting news, we gained another niece last week! Congrats to Keola and Phil on their sweet baby girl, Emma Kenani. I see so much of Baby Jonathan in her.
I got a little tired today - as I do most days - so I opted for the quick-and-easy-cell-phone belly photo rather than my usual nicer attempts.
How far along? 39 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: 55 pounds. I feel like this is a problem. But I'm so close to the end that I don't even care at this point.
Maternity clothes? I tried on the largest shirt I own today and it was bursting at the seams. Yet another sigh.
Stretch marks? Yes. And more.
Sleep: I've been taking more naps lately than I have my whole pregnancy. From what I hear, this is good. Very good.
Best moment this week: Adam: "There's like a BABY-sized baby in there!"
Miss Anything? People not paying so much attention to me? I don't much like the spotlight on me. I went to the temple last night and it was probably the closest to famous I will ever be. The little old ladies there, bless their hearts, went off about how "brave" I was --- as if I shouldn't even be taking a step out of the house at this point!
"I hope you're on your way to the hospital after this, dear!"
"Oh just let her finish this sheet - she's due in a week! She can only handle so much!"
"Are you feeling alright? Do you need a break?"
No, no, and um, no. If I didn't think I could handle it, I wouldn't have done it. And it's either waiting at home or waiting at the temple and guess what I chose? I do enough At Home these days.
Movement: Lots. And big ones. That are directly on my bladder and they really. really. really. really don't feel good.
Food cravings: I am preferring caramel over chocolate these days. And that is not typical.
Anything making you queasy or sick: I am a bit more sensitive these days. Just get acidy or nauseous a little easier.
Labor Signs: My belly measured 3 cms smaller this week than last week -- so he's dropped! Good sign.
Happy or Moody most of the time: I'm pretty cranky in my old pregnancy days.
Looking forward to: His birth day.
Well. I'm off to eat some pineapple. Or do some squats. Or drink raspberry leaf tea. Or whatever else we're supposed to do to get things moving.
I need to refer back to this post when I'm pregnant because you seem to keep yourself busy with great stuff. Good luck on the next week or whenever that baby is coming! Hopefully sooner than later :)
ReplyDeleteI heard jumping Jacks will get the ball rolling :) (figuratively speaking of course...not the jumping jacks, those I meant literally)
ReplyDeleteHe WILL come! I remember feeling like my baby never would, you are so right on about how S L O W those last weeks go. But he'll soon be in your arms, and then buckle up, because then it goes fast! It's such a wonderful ride! You are going to make the best mom.
ReplyDelete"i'm pretty cranky in my old pregnancy days" hahahah! hang in there girl! you are a rockstar.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day Meghan! Your little one is
ReplyDeletenear you whether in you belly or in your arms.
You ARE a Mom now, and your son is very fortunate to have you as his Mother.